Bem and Bam’s love story

I’m going to THE WEDDING today.

Not the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton in Westminster Abbey.

It’s the wedding of Bem Pontejos and Bam Frangue, two wonderful people I know.

It will be held at the Holy Rosary Parish in Boracay at 3.pm. Reception will follow at the Sagana Ballroom, Shangri-la’s Boracay Resort & Spa.

Of the couple, I first met Bem at the Marine Brig in Fort Bonifacio where he was detained together with other Magdalo officers for standing up against the unelected and corrupt Arroyo presidency on July 26, 2003, what is now referred to as the “Oakwood mutiny.”

Bem is Armand Pontejos. At the time of the Oakwood incident, Bem was then a young ensign with the Naval Special Warfare Group having graduated from the Philippine Military Academy in 2001.

I met Bam later, who turned out to be a province mate.

In one of my home visits during the 2007 election, I noticed Trillanes-for-senator streamers at the San Jose plaza. There were also vans going around with Trillanes streamers. I wondered who his leader was in Antique.

Trillanes told me the girlfriend of one the Magdalo soldiers was the daughter of one of the mayors in Antique. He was Mayor Frangue of Caluya, an island near the northern tip of Antique where the Semirara coal plant is located.

I was told later by a neighbor who was a member of our town’s (Laua-an) Sangguniang Bayan that Mayor Frangue asked fellow mayors to carry Trillanes in their ticket, which they did.

That kind of Magdalo network explains why despite being in detention and short of campaign funds, Trillanes won a Senate seat.

Trillanes, as expected, is one of the wedding sponsors together with his wife, Arlene, and fellow Magdalo officers, LTsg James Layug and Manuel G. Cabochan.

I saw familiar names in the list of sponsors: Sen. Gregorio Honasan; Sen. Loren Legarda (also an Antiquena) former Antique Governor Sally Perez, former Arroyo political adviser Ray Roquero; Col. Ariel Querubin and wife, Maria Flor; Jeanne Monteverde; Bernadette Lomotan.

The wedding vows will be officiated by Most Rev. Romy Lazo (Bishop of Antique). Two of the seven co-celebrating priests are Fr. Danny Tabuyan, a barrio mate, and activist priest, Robert Reyes.

Today’s wedding is proof of the adage” love conquers all.”

In their wedding website (Bem is an IT genius), the couple related their love story.

They first ‘met’ through text in July 2000. The courtship began after almost three years of text messaging sometime in February 2003. They finally met in May 2003. Then, in July 2003, ‘Oakwood’ happened.

Bem and Bam’s love blossomed behind barbed wires. In their own words: “That was when we learned what sacrifice and freedom meant, and what true love can endure.

“Despite the circumstances, we were incredibly (Oak)wooed by each other that we officially became a couple on September 3, 2003.

“Visits, takeouts, and sneaky phone calls made our days exciting. Our dates and anniversaries, and all other special occasions, were spent inside strictly guarded barricades– three in those seven years– where sentinels walked around, watching every move.”

While in detention, Bem earned two master degrees through the University of the Philippines ‘Open University.’ When he got his first master’s degree in Management Information System, he was allowed to attend the commencement exercises with armed escorts.

Bem and Bam wrote: “At the end of the day, it is what we believed and saw in each other – the beautiful face, the even more beautiful heart, the passion and conviction, the brilliance, the wonder, the laughter – that mattered. These are what made “us” work; these are why there is nothing we would not do for the promise of a lifetime together.”

Bem and Bam, your love story inspires us all. We wish you happy and meaningful life together.

iPad 2 debuts today at Power Mac Center

iPad2 SmartCover

iPad 2 officially lands in the Philippines today when it begins to be sold by authorized Apple reseller Power Mac Center at their stores in Greenbelt 3, SM Mall of Asia (MOA), SM Megamall, The Annex at SM City North EDSA and TriNoma. Price was undisclosed in the press release but we will know soon! Prior to this, iPad 2 units have already been available in the gray market and some mall retails stores at an average price of P36,000.

Power Mac has upped the ante by offering free 30-day coverage for accidental
damage, something you can’t have if you’re buying in Greenhills. The warranty allows for a replacement of the iPad 2 in cases of sudden and unforeseen physical damage during the 30-day period of insurance.

What more, Power Mac Center also holds a three-day 10 percent off sale on all iPad 2 accessories, including the iPad 2 Smart Cover, an ingenious Apple design technology specially meant for the iPad 2.

The iPad 2 is an improvement from the first iPad with its twin cameras, dual-core A5 chip, and iOS4. It is also 33 per cent thinner and boast of features like AirPlay and AirPrint. The gadget is available in Black or White, WiFi-only and 3G+WiFi models, with 16GB, 32GB, and 64GB capacities.

The question now is: do we want it, and when? People like me who possess the first-generation iPad are in a quandary: do we trade in and buy the latest model or not? Dilemma, dilemma! But as they say, you cannot put a good object down. An iPad is an iPad……. period.

Kyoto Jishu Shrine, the Cupid of Japan

Okay, this is the last of my Kyoto posts. I just couldn’t resist writing about this place, knowing how some of my friends are trying to find love and will even resort to astrology, fortunetelling and other crazy schemes to know who their life partner will be!

( speaking of psychics and such, one said I will marry a white guy and other spot-on projections, but I’ve never consulted a manghuhula again since getting hitched, for fear of angering the gods… tee hee)

Jishu Shrine

The Jishu Shrine is within the complex of Kiyomizu Temple, but it is independent and does not form part of the temple. It’s known among its devotees as the Cupid of Japan. According to literature: “Japanese young people have looked up to and relied on Jishu Shrine as the dwelling place of the god of love and matchmaking.

In front of the beautiful main building, there are two stones set about ten meters apart. They are called ‘love fortune-telling’ stones. If a person walks safely from one stone to the other with closed eyes, his or her love will be realized.”

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It was interesting to see all the wishes that visitors of the temple wrote down on small wooden plaques for the heavens to read.

Jishu Shrine

Jishu Shrine

Common to shrines and temples, there were a lot of charms being sold and each one promised fulfillment of a variety of wishes such as a good marriage, safe delivery and the chance to love.

Jishu Shrine

We never got around to writing on the plaques or buying the charms, but I did get to say my thanks to the god of love and matchmaking for granting my wish. After all, everyone of us deserves good fortune! :D

Wearing the kimono in Kyoto

I just couldn’t resist wearing the kimono – at the last minute! – in Kyoto. I’ve read Memoirs of a Geisha and all that stuff, and being garbed in traditional Japanese costume, was out there as one of my fantasies. It was a lovely day, and this pic of me amid the plum blossoms is something I will (ahermm!) treasure from our trip.

Kimono in Kyoto

Kyoto seemed to be the right place as I saw lots of people resplendent in their colorful costumes, even foreigners like me who appeared to like the whole experience.

Kimono in Kyoto

…. I also took inspiration from this wonderful creature called Hello Kitty! (If you notice, the sign says no camera, but I took a picture anyway)

Hello Kitty in kimono

Of course I thought I will never be able to walk comfortably in the outfit, but I was wrong. Wearing the kimono gives one the authentic Japanese feel and an insight into Japanese culture. I was able to learn that kimono styles and colors depend on the seasons, the age of the woman and her status – whether she’s married or single.

Kimono in Kyoto

I thought the price for renting the kimono in a tourist area was expensive but it was actually affordable. I just availed of the cheapest plan at less than US$40 which already includes the kimono, obi (belt), wooden sandals, tabi or split-toed socks and the whole dressing up session. The only difference with the other “plans” is that there were less choices of styles and colors.

As expected, it was very elaborate and I don’t think people can do it by themselves. I was grateful for the expertise of my kimono dresser – a young lady who went about her business like she was just brushing her teeth. I can only recall now from memory how she made me wear two or three thin layers of very light clothing before cinching my waist with a belt, then the kimono, then the obi. The whole process took faster than I thought – less than 45 minutes.

Kimono in Kyoto

But we weren’t finished yet. After the dress up, you can choose for a selection of hair styles for an extra US$10 or so. There’s another team to work on you. I remember they asked me some questions because I came from another country – friendly banter, by the way.

Hair session after kimono dressing

Honestly though, the part of the costume that I was in love with was the footwear, specifically the split-toed socks. I’ve never seen them in Manila. Luckily, I was able to take the pair home with me :

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Overall I had a great experience with the kimono rental shop which was located on the path towards Kiyomizu Temple. I think their name was Okamoto. Friendly service, modern Zen interiors and very clean surroundings. Highly recommended if you happen to find yourself in the area someday.

Kimono in Kyoto

Hotdog: The Reunion

From Yahoo OMG:

On May 16, the grand ballroom of the Dusit Thani Manila hotel will be filled with the delightful hits of the Hotdog band when the trailblazing Pinoy pop- rock group in the 1970s stages a one- night reunion concert.

Dennis Garcia, one of the founders of the band and who plays bass, said the rare event will bring together other members of the group, namely, Rene Garcia (lead guitarist/vocals), Jess Garcia on drums, and Gina Montes, Maso Diez, Joy Reyes, and Rita Saguin Trinidad, all former lead vocalists of Hotdog at various times.

They will be backed up by guest performers Joey Abando from The Boyfriends, and session musicians Benjie Santos, Carlo Gaa, Roy Marinduque, and Roy Sadicon.

Hotdog revolutionized Philippine musical landscape with what was dubbed as the “Manila sound.” The songs were original Pilipino music distinguished for their catchy lyrics written by the Garcia brothers, Rene and Dennis, which mostly conveyed exuberance.

Music critic Baby A. Gil of the Philippine Star, said, ” It was (Hotdog) who killed colonial mentality in pop music with (their) phenomenal ‘Pers Lab’ in 1974. Suddenly it was cool to talk Taglish and listen to a Pinoy band.”

Hotdog songs were being played even in the enclaves of the elite where Filipino songs used to be looked down as “bakya (pedestrian).” Perhaps it helped that the Hotdog female soloists were from Catholic exclusive girls school.

One of their megahits,”Bongga ka, ‘Day,” an ode to fashionistas, cajoled people to let go and enjoy,“Bongga ka, ‘Day/ Bongga ka, ‘Day/ Sige lang, sige lang, itaas ang kilay/ Bongga ka, ‘Day/Bongga ka, ‘Day/Sige lang, sige lang, itaas ang kilay.”

Their first album, “Hotdog: Unang Kagat,” released in 1974 by Villar Records, became such a monster hit that it spawned a movie of the same title the following year. It starred the band alongside some of the biggest names in local cinema—Fernando Poe Jr., Joseph Estrada, Nora Aunor, Vilma Santos, and Boots Anson Roa—in cameo roles.

Another hit that was turned into a movie starring Nora Aunor was “Annie Batungbakal” about a disco-loving salesgirl.

Journalist Sol Vanzi, who owned a boutique in Malate where the band sourced some of their “hippie” attires, observed that the period when the Hotdog’s songs ruled the music scene was when anti-Vietnam war protests were winding down and the Philippines was under martial law. “The young people vented their energy through the vibrant music of the Hotdog rather than marched in the streets,” Vanzi said.

Their song, “Manila,” a tribute to the country’s capital city, became the anthem of overseas Filipinos: “Hinahanap-hanap kita, Manila/ Ang ingay mong kay sarap sa tenga/ Mga jeepney mong nagliliparan/ Mga babae mong naggagandahan/ Take me back in your arms, Manila/ And promise me you’ll never let go/Promise me you’ll never let go.”

Since the mid 1980s, the band’s members have all pursued other endeavors, some of them based abroad.

They had their first reunion concert in 1988 at the Rizal Theater in Makati, before it was torn down.

Hotdog’s first female soloist, Ella del Rosario, who gave the public hits like “Pers Lab” and “O Lumapit Ka” was supposed to have staged a series of homecoming concerts starting Dec. 14 last year but this was cancelled because she lost her voice two days before the start of the concert.

The unfortunate incident all the more encouraged Dennis to mount another Hotdog concert. “I felt the frustration of people who bought tickets (for the Ella del Rosario concert),” he said.

One of those whose Dec. 14 schedule was upset by the cancellation was former defense secretary and presidential candidate Gilbert Teodoro who bought 20 tickets as he had planned to celebrate his wedding anniversary with friends in the concert.

Another compelling reason for the concert was Dennis’s bandmate from his first band, “Red Fox,” who was battling pancreatic cancer. “With my Hotdog bandmates and I sheepishly realizing that we had T.R.O. (time running out), I felt a reunion was the right thing to do,” he said.

Dennis promises a treat for those coming to the concert. He said they will perform all their hits, including “Ikaw ang Miss Universe ng Buhay Ko,” “Pers Lab,” “Panaginip,” “Ikaw Pa Rin,” “Langit Na Naman,” “Careful, Careful,” “Behh, Buti Nga” and many others.
They will also play the hits that Dennis wrote for other artists like “Sa Isip Ko,” “Saan Ka Na Kaya Ngayon,” “B.A.D.A.F. Forever,” and “Ayayayyy, Boracay.”

There were also good songs released but got overwhelmed by their numerous blockbusters: “Kung Aminin Kong May Asawa Na Ako,” “Dying to Tell You,” “When the One You Love Is Gone,” “Kulang,” and “Parang Robot.” The audience will have the chance to rediscover them.

Tickets for the concert are available at the Dusit Thani Manila concierge, and through telephone numbers 886-6186, 0915-359-8228 and 0921-293-1784. Tickets are on first-come, first-served basis, and include dinner, drinks, and dancing all night.